Within an intimate relationship, sexual satisfaction is fundamentally important in keeping both partners contented and invested in the love connection. It’s also key, if you’re loving being single and enjoying casual hookups.
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Sexual satisfaction is a highly subjective experience. While it would certainly be helpful to notice clear signs that your seduction techniques and moves between the sheets are ticking every box on your lover’s orgasmic satisfaction checklist, unfortunately it’s not as simple as that. That’s because everyone’s sexual needs are different and personal.
There are however, subtle signs that provide valuable clues that you’re doing something right when you’re pleasuring your partner…
A sense of deep relaxation
There’s no denying that sexual chemistry between two people plays a big part in setting the scene for sex that is satisfying. When you’re with the right person, and in the mood for intimacy, your body naturally releases feel-good hormones and you experience a deeper sense of relaxation in their company.
The sexual act that you perform with your partner can have an emotional attachment (lovemaking), or be purely gratifying. As a sexually satisfied person, you’ll be happy to get it on regardless of whether the experience is slow, passionate and meaningful, or risky and frisky.
Being relaxed also has a positive impact on letting go of inhibitions, and exploring your sexuality. In a relaxed state, you’re more likely to be open to trying hot new moves, playing with sex toys, or sharing your fantasies with your lover.
Contented body language
In the lead up to having sex, body language offers many vital clues that your sexual pursuit is about to be rewarded. During up close and personal intimacy, the body language signs become a bit more subtle.
Sustained eye contact will intensify as pleasure increases. Gentle caresses are no longer restricted to only specific parts of the body. Smiling and laughing become clear indicators that you’re on a roll. Mirroring actions and behaviour further confirm that you’re on track to becoming sexually satisfied.
Open verbal affirmations
An obvious way to tell if your sexual techniques are pleasing to your partner is to pay attention to their intensified breathing, moans of enjoyment and gasps of pleasure. It’s unrealistic to expect to hear a crescendo of porno sounds of satisfaction though.
Some people like to shower their partner with verbal affection and affirmations when they’re having sex. This type of lover will praise your physical attributes, as well as your personality and sense of humour, during foreplay and penetration. Because they feel comfortable and safe with you, conversation will flow easily during the sex act and you’ll be able to share sexual scenario laughs.
Your partner may also give real-time feedback that let’s you know that you need to increase or decrease momentum, or that a minor adjustment is required to hit their sweet spot. The use of ‘dirty’ words and profanity is another bonus sign that they’re more than satisfied with the sex.
Desire for extended intimacy
Someone who’s satisfied with the sex they’re having feels encouraged and motivated to initiate physical contact more often. They’ll also want to extend foreplay, so that desire and passion for the main event builds and increases gradually.
Feeling sexually satisfied boosts your libido, and makes you feel more empowered to ask for what you want. And as your sexual and emotional needs are met, trust and intimacy will organically deepen with your partner.
When you don’t have any sex complaints, don’t be surprised if you’re feeling horny all of the time, and looking for opportunities for quickie sex with your lover. Sending your partner cheeky texts about what you’d like to do to them later is another clear sign that you’re content with your sex life.
Emotional elevation
When you’re sexually satisfied you naturally exude an elevated mood and a noticeable afterglow. You’re both content to snuggle up and indulge in pillow talk or to drift off to sleep together, after a session of passionate lovemaking.
The feeling of comfort and security that lovers experience, after having good sex, creates a meaningful bond that elevates the emotional attachment of the relationship. And when your sex life is good, you know that everything else will work out just fine.
